Friday night on the sofa is lovely fifty times a year, not fifty-two.
Shared novelty is the thing that actually keeps a long relationship interesting, and it is the first thing to disappear when life is busy.
Swap one repeating slot this month for something neither of you has done. Not a big trip; a new thing.
Alternate who chooses. The chooser's job is to book it, not to negotiate it.
How to actually do it
- 01Identify the routine slot you will trade.
- 02Whoever chooses this month books it without a committee.
- 03Swap who chooses next month.
You already know if this is the one. Go put a date on it.
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