Booked, planned, and looked forward to. Not just an errand you did alone.
There is a real difference between being alone and taking yourself somewhere. One is a gap in the day, the other is an appointment you kept with yourself.
Pick something you would enjoy even if nobody ever hears about it. A matinee, a long lunch with a book, a gallery on a weekday.
Doing this well makes you better company for everybody else, which is a side effect and not the reason.
How to actually do it
- 01Put it in the calendar with a start and an end time.
- 02Choose something you actually like, not something impressive.
- 03Do not turn it into errands.
You already know if this is the one. Go put a date on it.
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