Attendance is an underrated love language.
The recital, the opening, the small race, the talk nobody else came to. These are the things people remember decades later, and they only remember who was in the room.
It is almost never convenient. That is the point; convenience is what makes it mean nothing.
Ask what is on their calendar in the next two months and put one of those dates in yours.
How to actually do it
- 01Ask them what is coming up that matters to them.
- 02Put the date in your calendar immediately.
- 03Tell them you are coming so they can look forward to it.
You already know if this is the one. Go put a date on it.
Date it in the app